Everywhere I turn I see people suffering. Suffering physically, mentally, emotionally and/or spiritually. I was one of those people for 40 years, suffering on all levels. I blamed my abusive childhood, my circumstances, society, and mostly myself... But blame makes us into a victim, and I didn't want to be a victim anymore.
I began to take accountability for my life. I realized that everything in my life was there by my (mostly unconscious) choice. What you aren't changing, you are also choosing. The only person who could fix my life was me. And it all came down to my own perception of my life. I was living from the stories of my past - the stories in my mind of who I "thought" I was. It was time to peel those stories off, layer by layer. It was time to change my mind.
To Unbecome all that & just Be. This is a conscious choice I make every day - some days are better than others but it is always MY choice.